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Premature Ejaculation

Many men and women worry about premature ejaculation but it can be treated with or without out drugs. Worry no more.
Most men and woman would not be that bothered by this very common complaint but for some men and women it is the most frustrating part of a relationship and the more they worry the worse it seems to get.

 

Many men say they have in the past or are now suffering with this complaint. It is more common with younger men because as they grow older and more experienced the majority of men gain more self-control and the problem of ejaculation at the start of sex or even before if heavy foreplay is involved becomes less frequent.

 

What some people feel is PE may not even be at all. Who knows exactly how long a man should be able to hold back his ejaculation? For some men 2minutes is normal, others 7minutes but for a lucky few it is also normal to average out at about 25minutes.

 

If you can only last seconds inside the vagina before ejaculation then I think it would be safe to say you have PE. The problem only becomes a problem when both you and your partner are not happy with the length of time it takes for the love making to end.

 

Many experts for many years have been trying to come up with an answer as to why PE happens to some men and not to others. Some think it’s from quickly, quietly and repeatedly masturbating as a youngster to cover up masturbation. Others think it stems back to when man lived in tribes and had to get his women pregnant swiftly in order to have the largest tribe. (Safety in numbers) Whilst others think it possible that it is inherited and should you be brave enough to discuss it with your father, he probably had the same problem.

 

All hope is not lost however, and if you feel PE to be a big problem in your life and it’s causing you worry and stress then there are treatments and tequniques available. The first step is to go and see your doctor or family planning nurse, they will be able to assess the problem and give you advice.

 

There are many things you can try to see if they help you fight off orgasm until both you and your partner are ready.

 

Distraction tequniques are a start and I think most people have heard of them before. Try thinking of something not so nice and pleasurable as what you are doing right at the moment your penis enters the vagina. Think about all the paper work or tax returns you still have to fill in! That should dampen the flames.

 

There are also extra thick condoms available that will reduce sensitivity and a local anaesthetic gel that is placed on the penis shaft just before sex but this could also have the same effect on the woman’s vagina and could also cause an allergic reaction.

 

There is also a method of the man pulling out when he feels orgasm is near and placing his fingers in a firm grip around the base of the shaft, this takes a lot of practice but can be very effective.

 

Also try to control your orgasm by slow masturbation alone with dry hands. It must be slow and controlled though, not quick and fast. When this is mastered you may then try with wet hands, lubricate with a gel to imitate the woman’s vagina.

 

For men that have a more severe case of PE there are certain types of antidepressants, nose sprays and other anti-PE drugs that also are prescribe to help but you would need to see your doctor as they are prescription only.

 

Above all do not worry about this problem and talk your thoughts and feelings through with your partner, you never know you may be the only one that is bothered by it.

 

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Comments (14)

A very well written and courageous article on a difficult subject. Congratulations Lilly and glad to see you here. Take care my friend.

I agree with Francois. It is very informative and helpful! I'm out of votes but will be back to vote for it later. ^_^

Great job on this. Even for those who may not have a PE problem, tips on holding back are valuable. Visualizing two eggs frying sunny side up in a black cast iron pan works for me... Don't know why! A friend was complaining about just the opposite. She said he would hold back for an hour while she performed oral sex. He said he couldn't help it, he was enjoying the peace and quiet! Lol.

LOL Kevin. I am full of good tips! glad you liked and voted and added me as a follower:-)

Nice write up. Well done.

Lostash

Not an easy subject to discuss, but one that SHOULD be discussed! We need to break away from feeling awkward about such things and discuss them openly! Nice one Lily!

Another provocative article. Only an expert could elaborate on this matter or else the rest I suppose were suffering from PE, lol.

oldster

Some good advice here Lilly.

It's sad when one partner is left unfulfilled, or fulfilled before they are ready. Partners should discuss these problems agreed. Not sure about asking dad though, he surely wont admit to lack of self control, after all the lectures he's given you about it.

Discovering your earlier gems:)

haha...thanks babe! this is one triond would publish because it was pornographic!? LOL

This is good to know. Now I understood lol... This is a difficult topic but you handled this one so well. Thanks. SUd.

Excellent article on a courageous subject. Voted up

This is... interesting. So premature ejaculation's like a party pooper in an intercourse? :) Stumbled!

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