What Harm Pornography Can Do to You?
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What Harm Pornography Can Do to You?

This is a guide for constructive guidance of one's sexual life and getting rid of evil effects of porn literature and videos.

“Do you have any kind of addiction, like drugs, smoking, and liquior”-The psychiatrist was asking?

“Yes”-The young boy sitting before him replied.

“What is it”- The doctor puckered his face as he posed the question?

The young chap was mum for sometime.

“What is it”- The psychiatrist again pressed his query?

The boy who sat with his downcast face began sobbing. The tears were for real. Sobs gradually grew into moaning. He cried and while wiping off his tears, he replied – “I have fallen victim to pornography”.

“What”- The doctor listened in disbelief.

In the last one year, the demeanor of the boy changed drastically. Well a friend of him introduced to him to the sleazy world of porn. At first it was porn literature, then the free available portions of blue scenes in the web and again it scaled up to watching full-fledged blue movies in the video. The boy had become very horny. The realties before his eyes were crashing as he thought every girl in his neighborhood was from the movie that he watched last night. It was unbelievable that he watched blue films throughout the night. In the morning while he went to the bank, his head was reeling and he tripped on the stairs and fell down the staircase, bleeding. There was more in store for him. He had set his eyes on a beautiful female teenager in the ground-floor of his apartment. As he made passes at her, she informed her boyfriend. Gosh, while the girl in the ground-floor stood and watched, both the boys were engaged in a fierce fisticuff and our boy was beaten severely. Matter did not end up there as the boy was soon embroiled in the third mess; this time he was called by the nearest Police station because a female professor of his College filed a complaint that he sexually misbehaved with her.

“There is no treatment for this. Unless you behave normally and stop watching and reading those dirty stuff, you have no chance for improvement”-The psychiatrist felt exasperated in his explanations.

1. Pornography is not real sex.

Sex is the most beautiful thing on earth. It is said that food, cloth, shelter and sex are the most primitive needs of a human being. For example if someone is hungry and I will show him the best cooking books or the videos with images where people keep on enjoying sumptuous meals ,how his appetite can be appeased. There is nothing unnatural if one has urges for sex. . Those come in the same way like the hunger appears at intervals. One should not feel ashamed of his sexuality. But the vital point is one must not handle his or her sexuality in the wrong ways. Take another example if for hunger he will be given junk food then those shall have catastrophic effects on his health and mind. In the same way body and mind will react if sexual urges will get wrong guidance.

2. Most of the pornographic material is just projection

Pornography is a highly profitable business. Lots of innocent females get lured into this. Guiltless female teenagers and young women are trapped in to video recordings of their nudity even in their ignorance. Desires for sex appear in the adolescence in every human being and if mind gets the taste of such larger-than-life projection of such abnormal sex then the subconscious of mind creates greater problem; it retains the images of porn in it and then makes vicious spin-offs even at the time one is not engaged in watching and reading porn.

3. Consequent behavior becomes dangerous.

Then the victim of pornography behaves in rash ways. The rash reactions from watching the images of sex keep him unconscious in this demeanor. He simply steps over the distinction of good and bad and goes after seeking satisfaction from sexual urges. Most of the victims of porn seek relief by going through unnatural masturbations .But it is dangerous if pornographic images produced by your mind step into the areas of precious relationships. A victim might take undesirable steps towards his own people. Even in many cases, it is seen that a person becomes a rapist. The most unfavorable thing is teenagers start having sexual relationship within their group. It degrades their mental faculties, very often creates disinterest in their studies and other formative things. The worst turn comes while going through such nasty things the teenager or the youngster becomes a drug addict. There are cases when they get suggestions from the evil companions that drug creates more enjoyment in sex. But the truth is that the prospect of his whole life is spoilt if one goes though such phases in life.

4. How can somebody give constructive guidance to his sexual urges and get rid of Porn:-

(I) Be one a female or male, there is nothing wrong if sexual urges manifest in one’s body? The importance here is you must constructively guide those without getting embroiled in any nasty thing. Consciously and positively avoid porn material in literature or films. It is said a person becomes addicted to boozing because of closeness with some drunkards, not due to alcohol. The same holds true in case of porn. Check the source from which you are getting the stuff. If somebody is encouraging you to read or watch porn then he is definitely having some devious intention behind your back. Find his motive and that will of course shock you. Please disassociate yourself from that person; else most of such friendship would cast a lifelong catastrophic repercussion in your life’s growth prospect. But sometimes during the adolescence, your natural inquisitiveness misguides you. Suppose you are a young inexperienced or a teenager and by chance you come across one pornographic book, that may become enough to mislead you in to the worst trappings of your life. If you are intelligent then you can observe the negative effects of the book immediately. Once it was seen in a cinema hall, while everybody was busy enjoying a super-hit movie, one woman got up and began shouting because she found the dance and song quite obscene. It was sad and unfortunate that when a number of qualified people were just enjoying the nude stuff in the movie, the little literate woman out rightly denounced this as unacceptable and walked out of the theatre. If a semi-literate woman can shout in the face of his hubby and walk out of the movie hall using her power of discretion, then why the literate people fall victims to pornography so easily. Exercise your power of discretion thoroughly.

(II) If due to overdose of pornography you are having excess desire or you have become oversexed then please do try the “self-observation” method. Whenever you feel the strong sexual urges, sit down at one place and watch your breathing. Just focus on the incoming and outgoing breathing. Soon you will experience a strong vibration in your body, but you have to keep restraint and continue observing your breathing till vibration shakes you. This yogic method will of course free you from excess desire and is very helpful in regaining self-control.

Srikant Mohanty ,MBA(Symbiosis)

HIG-1/60, BDA Colony, Bhubaneswar.

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I agree about the breathing exercise or yoga asanas can do also or tai chi. great awareness against the flooding industry of porn in the net.

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